The Balance Between Generosity and Self-Care

Some people are natural givers. They share what they have, support others, and never hesitate to offer help. However, when it comes to managing their financial wellbeing, they struggle.

Written by:

Justin Walton

Date:

February 7, 2025

The Balance Between Generosity and Self-Care

Some people are natural givers. They share what they have, support others, and never think twice about offering help. However, when it comes to managing their financial wellbeing, they struggle.

It’s easy to prioritise everyone else, whether that’s family, friends, or colleagues, while putting personal financial needs on the back burner. There’s always a reason to give, and there is always someone who could use support. However, this pattern can lead people to neglect their future security over time.

Eventually, you may realise that generosity and self-care aren’t mutually exclusive. Looking after yourself financially doesn’t mean giving less to others. It means ensuring you can continue to live sustainably.

One way to reframe this is to ask:

“If I continue on my current path, where will I be in 10 years?”

Will there be financial security and peace of mind, or will there be regret for not prioritising personal needs sooner?

 

Key Takeaway

If you tend to prioritise others over your financial wellbeing, consider the following:

 

  • Do I treat myself with the same financial care I offer others?

 

  • Am I building a future that allows me to continue giving sustainably?

  

  • How can I strike a balance between generosity and financial self-care?

 

Looking after your financial future is not selfish; it's essential. It is about being responsible.

If this resonates with you, take a moment to reflect on your financial habits.

Are they serving you or holding you back?

The next 10 years start now. How will you use them?

Justin Walton Executive Coach

Justin Walton is an Executive and Financial Coach, and Consultant working in Essex and London. He writes regularly on financial well-being and brings his lived experience and professional expertise together to benefit clients and partners.

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