The Search for Security – How Early Experiences Shape Our Money Mindset

Many people grow up without a clear understanding of money; what it represents, how to manage it, and, most importantly, how our emotions are tied to it. For some, money is a source of confidence and opportunity. For others, it carries a deep-seated fear of scarcity.

Written by:

Justin Walton

Date:

January 24, 2025

The Search for Security – How Early Experiences Shape Our Money Mindset

Many people grow up without a clear understanding of money; what it represents, how to manage it, and, most importantly, how our emotions are tied to it. For some, money is a source of confidence and opportunity. For others, it carries a deep-seated fear of scarcity.

Take the example of someone who grew up in an environment where money wasn’t openly discussed. They learned from an early age that financial stability was something to be earned and protected, yet they never truly explored their relationship with it. They worked hard, always prioritising security, yet the fear of not having enough remained ever-present, shaping every decision they made.

Years later, they reflected on how much they wished they had confronted these feelings earlier. But instead of looking back with regret, a more powerful perspective emerged: the next 10 years start today.

Key Takeaway

If financial security is something you constantly worry about, take a moment to ask yourself:

  • Where does this fear come from?
  • Does my current financial situation align with my emotions around money?
  • What steps can I take today to feel more in control?

We don’t have to let past experiences dictate our financial future. A new mindset starts with a single decision.

If this resonates with you, take a moment to reflect on your financial habits. Are they serving you or holding you back?

The next 10 years start now. How will you use them?

Justin Walton Executive Coach

Justin Walton is an Executive and Financial Coach, and Consultant working in Essex and London. He writes regularly on financial well-being and brings his lived experience and professional expertise together to benefit clients and partners.

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